As many of you know, we've been working really hard on all of our adoption stuff the past month. I have been a terrible blogging friend and haven't kept up with all of you. I've spent pretty much every second of my free time working on adoption stuff.
There have been many positives over the past month and several challenges as well. The distance between us and certain loved ones seems to be growing greater and it hurts me so much. I try so hard to pray about it but I don't seem to be getting anywhere. My therapist tells me I need to protect my own heart and stop spending so much time with people that for whatever reason aren't able to be supportive- not avoiding them just setting limits for myself.
All of the stress of not having the support we hoped for is doing a number on my mental health and spiritual well-being. I made it to daily mass 4 out 5 days last week which was a miracle but I feel so spiritually empty and disconnected. My anxiety has been out of control and I can barely sleep or eat.
Of course this is not to say that we have no support- quite the contrary actually. It's just that the absence of such significant relationships is felt all the more during these important life transitions. I know that unforgiveness can lead to all sorts of spiritual problems and I pray everyday for the grace to forgive. It is so confusing to know what forgiveness looks like when forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation/repair of the relationship.
I could really use your prayers right now. I am praying for you all even though I've been MIA.
There have been many positives over the past month and several challenges as well. The distance between us and certain loved ones seems to be growing greater and it hurts me so much. I try so hard to pray about it but I don't seem to be getting anywhere. My therapist tells me I need to protect my own heart and stop spending so much time with people that for whatever reason aren't able to be supportive- not avoiding them just setting limits for myself.
All of the stress of not having the support we hoped for is doing a number on my mental health and spiritual well-being. I made it to daily mass 4 out 5 days last week which was a miracle but I feel so spiritually empty and disconnected. My anxiety has been out of control and I can barely sleep or eat.
Of course this is not to say that we have no support- quite the contrary actually. It's just that the absence of such significant relationships is felt all the more during these important life transitions. I know that unforgiveness can lead to all sorts of spiritual problems and I pray everyday for the grace to forgive. It is so confusing to know what forgiveness looks like when forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation/repair of the relationship.
I could really use your prayers right now. I am praying for you all even though I've been MIA.
I will be praying for you. It was a huge "ah-ha" for me when I realized that forgiveness was more for me than for the other person. I wish I could say that it also healed relationships, it didn't, but it really helped me to be able to deal with things a whole lot better. Not perfectly and not all the time - Easter this year was an epic failure, but overall it is better, and it is worth it.
ReplyDeleteMy heart hurts for you. I'm so sorry your loved ones aren't being supportive. I will certainly pray for you and hope that their hearts will be changed, especially now when you need support the most. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteI am praying for you! It's really hard to not have reconciliation or closure on differences when you've done the work to emotionally and mentally get to that point and your heart is ready to close that chapter. I am praying for your loved ones too - that they may hear God's call to support you and that their hearts may be filled be with compassion for your situation. Hugs, friend.
ReplyDeletePraying
ReplyDeletePraying for you.
ReplyDeletePraying praying praying. I am sorry things have been so difficult. No one's pain or suffering is equal, but I am sure that all of us have felt that lack of support from loved ones at some point or another--it truly is a pain like no other. God is the only one who can heal these wounds, but it does take time. Praying that this time passes quickly for you, and that you find some peace. (PS Yay for adoption paperwork!!!!)
ReplyDeleteThough it's hard, setting limits can make such a difference. I hope it helps.
ReplyDeleteIf you're feeling spiritually empty, you might want to try look at Mother Theresa's "Come Be My Light." I've found it helpful.
Praying for you!
Praying for you and hoping your hearts find some peace!
ReplyDeletePraying for you my friend!
ReplyDeleteThat's so hard to have difficult relationships. I had a friendship a few years ago that had all kinds of misunderstanding wrapped up in it...and I didn't know how to deal with all the emotions. Prayers for you for peace especially in this midst of these big happenings.
ReplyDeleteI will definitely be praying for you!
ReplyDeleteReally wondering how your treatment is going. Would love to hear your progress or what you have done in the last year. I am going thru it as well ttcwithnapro.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteReally wondering how your treatment is going. Would love to hear your progress or what you have done in the last year. I am going thru it as well ttcwithnapro.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteThe current situation in Ukraine does not allow us to be indifferent. We help the orphans and hope that you can help them as well. Visit the site and find out more please!
ReplyDeleteVery informative article. Know the ups and downs of the infertile.Gynecologist In Adambakkam will give you the best treatment, they are focused in your health and comfort. Beware of choosing the hospital and doctor who is about to treat you during the entire period of pregnancy. CM hospital offers you the Best Gynecologist in Chennai for Normal Delivery.
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeletei couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Akhere,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again,3 months later we got engaged and married,if you are having this same situation just contact Dr Akhere on his email: AKHERETEMPLE@gmail.com thanks very much sir for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his emai: AKHERETEMPLE@gmail.com or call/whatsapp:+2349057261346
i couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Akhere,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again,3 months later we got engaged and married,if you are having this same situation just contact Dr Akhere on his email: AKHERETEMPLE@gmail.com thanks very much sir for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his emai: AKHERETEMPLE@gmail.com or call/whatsapp:+2349057261346
An interesting article to read,, Introduce me to promote the best blogs that write content about Catholic Daily Devotionals Blog.
ReplyDeleteto read visit https://www.blogevan.com. Jesus Bless You. Thanks.